"The Kids Are All Right" is soft porn for straight people - PERIOD

So here is my chance to rant about what a piece of Hollywood dung this movie was (with the excepetion of Annette Bening who was outstanding and quite believable in her characted) and not at ALL a true depiction of a lesbian couple. I was so angry that Julianne Moore's character went off (spoiler alert) and had an affair with a MAN and they showed her having sex with him several times as if this is something lesbians go and do! PLEASE! I can believe in the infidelity part but with a guy? And it was just like no big deal? I kept thinking that if it were the opposite, in other words a straight couple, would they show the husband just JUMPING INTO BED WITH ANOTHER MAN? And what's with the GUY ON GUY PORN VIDEO? Do any of you lesbians out there watch that stuff? I know I don't! I think they used all the sex as filler like polyester in a cheap pillow. What a waste of opportunity.  It's basically a movie catered towards straight people and male sexual fantasies.  This movie really pissed me off and actually offended me as a lesbian.  Yeah, I said it, MOVIE!